New Year’s Eve Dinner Party Etiquette


Even though this night revolves around fun, drinks and sparkles, it doesn’t mean you can completely forget about your etiquette.

 
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Words, Peter Minkoff

Illustration, Matthew Karl Gale

 

 

As the year slowly comes to an end, you’ve probably already been invited to a few New Year’s Eve celebrations, and you’re starting to get ready for one of the biggest parties of the year. But even though this night revolves around fun, drinks and sparkles, that doesn’t mean you can completely forget about your etiquette. You should always aim to hold yourself to the same standards as you would at any other event, especially considering the fact that this evening tends to carry weight all year round. So, here is the most important New Year’s Eve etiquette to follow:

 
 
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Check the Dress Code

Unlike many other holidays, the dress code for New Year’s Eve can differ depending on the type of party you are attending, and can be anything from casual to black tie, or even themed costumes. That is why it might be a good idea to read the invitation carefully or ask your host what the expected dress code is, as well as whether the party is held indoors or outside, so you know exactly how to style yourself. If the dress code isn’t specified, you can never go wrong with fashionable party dresses or pant suits, as they work perfectly for almost any occasion

Always bring a gift

Remember the age-old advice to never arrive empty-handed? Arriving to a party with a gift is both the reflection of your manners and the etiquette, so express your appreciation to the host and the invitation with a simple yet thoughtful present. One of the best and most appropriate New Year’s Eve gifts you can opt for is a wonderful bottle of champagne. Not only is champagne one of the most elegant and refined drinks, but it’s also ideal for that special NYE toast.

Mingle with the crowd

While staying with your small group of friends and acquaintances might be the simplest thing to do at any party, there’s not much fun in staying in one spot the whole evening. Some people might be new and it might be their first time going out with a certain group of people. So, be on the lookout for those who feel uncomfortable or isolated, start a friendly conversation and show some interest in them. Not only will they appreciate the fact that you approached them, but it also might be the start of a lifelong friendship – you simply never know if you don’t try.

The New Year’s kiss

Although it’s an unavoidable part of the holiday tradition, a New Year’s kiss is something that’s completely in your control. So, if you’re bringing a date or your partner to the celebration, a great kiss is the perfect way to start the New Year. If you’re going out with friends, however, don’t be afraid of a bit of physical contact. You should always feel comfortable enough to give them a friendly hug and a peck on the cheek when midnight strikes, and wish them a happy New Year.

Thanking the host

Even if you’ve only been at the party for a short period of time, it’s essential to say goodbye and thank you to the host on the way out. Don’t feel nervous and uncomfortable for leaving the party early; simply thank the host and apologize for having to dash so quickly. However, if you’re attending a large party and you can’t seem to find the host anywhere before it’s your time to leave, it’s completely fine to go without saying goodbye. Just remember to send them a quick message or e-mail the day after to thank them for a wonderful evening.

If you’ve been invited to a New Year’s Eve party, these incredible celebration etiquette tips will help you have the night of your life, while ensuring you get an invite next year as well.